Dating someone 20 years older than you

I was in love with a man 20 years elder then me, after facing few problems I started to think wisely, in 10 years time how our life would be? I'm 31 and I want to live my moment of life, I loved him but I knew this was for the best even though it did hurt.The other case now, I think I am going mad and everyone will think I am crazy (i know I am) is I'm now inlove with a man 14 yrs elder then me (that's fine) but married.He told me he had a discussion and his wife is aware they will have a divorce not because of me but is that they can not live together no more.He is still with her coz she's ill till she gets herself up and ready they will divorce.If you don't mind taking care of him if he develops senile dementia and doesn't know who you are, go for it.

So like I said you really can't judge a person from there age.

I am head over heels for a man that is 43, and I'm 23. He has children from a previous marriage and I have a son from a past relationship but, I can see us together for the long haul.

Like I said , enjoy this for what it is but please remember you got your whole life in front of you , and many things to experience.

I've seen this so many times , usually the girls get over him and move on , and they stay the same going fromone to another.

I'm sorry to say but I don't think it can work out long term if a guy is almost twice your age. My bf dated a girl half his age for 3 years , now I'm with him and I know he clearly has commitment issues. Another time he was with women twice his age when he was in his 20s.