Unless he informed you or gave you the chance to participate in these activities, it was not an honest act on his part.He also brushed off a chance to set the record straight without lying.So…the bottom line on texting and dating is this: use texting sparingly, wisely and, most of all, don’t read too much into it.Remember, real life and real love happen in person, smile to smile, touch to touch.
And if he is serious about meeting a woman for a real relationship, he will step up.He’s either impulsive or, more likely, using you as a back-up girl when his other plans fell through. A grownup guy who truly wants to know you will get the message and ask you out ahead of time.A player or user guy will text you again in a few weeks wanting to see you that night. It’s all about how he FEELS when he’s with you, and he knows it.When I confronted him, he didn't understand why I was upset.He said that having sex online was harmless and a way to "get off" without breaking his marriage vows (we've been married 10 years). A: This is a situation I see more and more often as the Internet becomes a staple in homes.